Have you ever felt caught between where you are and where you want to be?
I’ve been feeling this way lately, and it reminds me of a phrase the coaches use in tennis called “no man’s land.”
In tennis, “no man’s land” refers to the area between the baseline and the service line. It’s a challenging spot that leaves players vulnerable. When you’re in this zone, you’re too far back to volley effectively, but too close to the net to handle the deep shots. It becomes a place of indecision, where we find ourselves constantly reacting and on the defensive.
Recently, I’ve found myself in a personal “no man’s land.” I’m not quite where I used to be, but not yet where I want to go. It’s a space of uneasiness, where I feel more reactive than proactive.
The world’s energy has felt heavy lately. I’ve caught myself clicking and reading more news than usual, even though I know it doesn’t serve me well. When I engage in activities that aren’t of a high vibration, I end up feeling stuck and in “no man’s land”.
But both in tennis and in life: we always have a choice.
We can step back to reassess our position, or we can commit to moving forward with purpose. Even one small step can shift us from defense to offense.
Gandhi wisely said, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.”
This week, I’m taking this to heart. I’m embracing the practice of prioritizing what truly brings me joy and letting go of what doesn’t. I’m taking a cue from Marie Kondo’s approach, which goes beyond just organizing our physical belongings.
By clearing out the old – both in our personal space and in our minds – we make room for something energetically beautiful to come into our lives.
When we declutter, we create space for clarity and new possibilities. It’s an instant upgrade for our intuition and inner guidance. It helps us see how we can be the change we want to see in the world.
In tennis, the player who notices they’re in “no man’s land” and takes action often gains the advantage. The same is true in life. By recognizing where we are and making a conscious choice to move, we can shift from feeling stuck to feeling empowered.
Questions to ask ourselves this week:
Where in my life do I feel like I’m in “no man’s land”?
What small step can I take today to move forward with intention?
Let’s all have more fun on and off the tennis court by stepping out of “no man’s land” and into a space of clarity, purpose, and joy.
….. until next time many many sweet blessings.